White race-mixers may know they are defective, but they think that others do not divine this fact when they parade their non-white paramours in public .
In recent years, more and more white men who are not obvious losers are dating Asians.
But according to the conventional wisdom, they probably have hidden physical or psychological defects, such as a self-esteem problem.
An allied attitude is that non-whites can’t be blamed for wanting to date or marry whites.
Their racial betrayal is seen as a completely healthy impulse.
When most people see whites dating non-whites, the immediate assumption is that there is something wrong with the white. We know why a homely or obese white woman is sleeping with blacks or Mexicans: They are willing to overlook her faults (and of course the aliens are angling for green cards and money as well).
And what about attractive whites who date non-whites?
I hold these views, even though I know that there are obviously some cases in which they are not true.
There is enough interaction between the races now that perfectly normal people can form friendships that turn into romances.
But the attitudes persist, because they are what Burke calls “wise prejudices”–based on past experience, repeatedly confirmed by new experiences, and therefore handy heuristic assumptions to maintain when visiting the Bay Area. Even the diversity police who obsessively try to expose every other instance of hidden racism, real or imagined, remain silent.
I suspect they are silent because they know that a widespread discussion of this attitude would inhibit race-mixing, and they don’t want to do that.
(Seems pretty reasonable to me.) Race-mixing is sold as an expression of progress in racial equality: Fair Romeos will no longer be separated from their dusky Juliets by the antiquated prejudices of their parents’ generation.
But the ugly truth is that race-mixing usually White losers are attracted to marrying down, because they feel that their grateful partners will overlook their flaws for the privilege of marrying into a superior race, and their non-white partners think the same thing: they could never get a normal white, but they are willing to take up with a subnormal one, because they want to marry into a superior race.