Find a place where you can talk or do other things, wink wink lol– in privacy.
Turn out the lights, or fill the bathtub with bubbles — whatever makes you feel less vulnerable and more relaxed with your man.
We advise to “chuckling knowingly” rather than laughing if something takes you by surprise.
“Try to be as natural as possible, and react normally to things.” Just go with the flow (those moans we mentioned) so he won’t feel judged.
You’re chatting on the phone, when suddenly your guy asks: “So … ” The next thing you know, his voice is lower, he’s breathing heavily, and he’s waiting for you to … Clearly, not all gals were blessed with a throaty voice, a sex mad vocabulary, and the confidence to get hot and heavy over the phone. Get Comfortable Part of the lure of sex chat on the phone is that caller are safely ensconced in their own environments, which puts them at ease and helps them open up about their fantasies. Loool.” But with phones having the ability for photos and videos it can get even more steamier (but thats a whole new blog for the future) but for now lets just concentrate on the sex chat.A glass of wine or whiskey may help, but don’t overindulge. Always Embellish So you’re sitting around in sweats, a holey T-shirt and an avocado mask.But as far as he’s concerned, you’re wearing head-to-toe Agent Provocateur and you ooze sex appeal. “Men want to feel like you’re enjoying the sexy talk as much as they are, and that you’re into their fantasy.However, if you are really uncomfortable with what he’s saying, it’s more than fine to end the conversation or change topics to something you enjoy.